Guys...I've been through a lot of torture lately....I almost feel like Crying.Only You guys can Help me out.The situation is that...The girl who I love also loves me but...She's Forced to be in a relationship with someone else...This is just so fuckin' Bad Y'know.Even his Brother said that He wanted ME to be in a relationship with his sister (the girl)..meh..I just hate it...Hope you guys can tell me How to Overcome this shi*.Cus my Nights have been Restless lately....I just think....about what she's going through right now...I get frequent Adrenaline Rushes These days....I feel Angry,Depressed and Just F***ed up...Hope you guys can help me.

-Cody.

Aww, Cody needs a hug. I've never been in a situation like that. She could just leave the dude since we all know you can't forced to stay in a relationship. She has the power to just leave. The parents also hold the power to end the relationship.

She's is forced to? Wtf?

Is she arranged to fucking marriage? Is she threatened to be killed?
If not, then fuck that shit.

She's no damn slave, so she can't be "forced" into a relationship.

Onis wrote:

Is she arranged to fucking marriage? Is she threatened to be killed?
If not, then fuck that shit.

She's no damn slave, so she can't be "forced" into a relationship.

This exactly. If she's not got a gun to her head, she's not forced. She's lying to you to get attention, for this is what crazy bitches do.

Only if he and she lives on India. But yeah, thats kind of shit is a lame excuse to don't be with you.

If this girl really likes you, then fuck the other guy. Walk up to her, give her a big surprise kiss, and go from there. Like everyone has already said she can't be forced in a relationship.

Or you can go another route, and go out with another girl to get her to give you attention. So maybe she realizes that she's being stupid about this whole thing.

You could sprite to cure the depression, if that helps. Write songs or poems. Listen to music. Hang out with some friends. Play some violent video games. Really anything that will distract you from the situation.

I hope everything works out for you Cody, Good Luck.

If she honestly had the feelings you say you have for her, then she still wouldn't be with the other guy. So forget her.

I know that's much easier said than done, but there's no point waiting for something that might never happen. It's just more heartache in the long run.

Yeah, ditch her and find someone who actually likes you and appreciates you.

Fuck that noise, bro.

Or you could kidnap her and tie her up in the basement. >.>

Afrolicious wrote:

Or you could kidnap her and tie her up in the basement. >.>

That's only for emergencies.

Fortex wrote:

Afrolicious wrote:

Or you could kidnap her and tie her up in the basement. >.>

That's only for emergencies.

Nope. It's Plan B.

Plan B rocks.

Moral of the story?
To quote the greatest philosopher of our time, Lil John: " Only bitches talk shit."

Guys? The fuck? lol
Sir Rsf know the whole situation properly ..I told him
and...We both love each other very much
That other guy only wants fuck from her...
Imma kill that guy >:3

Whenever you're in a situation like this, follow my motto in life.

Wing it.

Do what fucking feels right. Think it through if it feels right, don't if it doesn't.

Onis wrote:

Whenever you're in a situation like this, follow my motto in life.

Wing it.

Do what fucking feels right. Think it through if it feels right, don't if it doesn't.

The Quote is so fuc*in awesome >:3

i said to her that...I'll be waiting for you ..imma just wait..and see the relationship break apart...even her brother is angry now...i feel so tensed..:\

It's life. Shit happens, but there are plenty more fish in the sea. If you truly want to be with her, tell her. And tell her that if she truly wants to be with you, then she needs to prove it and leave the other guy.

Onis wrote:

Whenever you're in a situation like this, follow my motto in life.

Wing it.

Do what fucking feels right. Think it through if it feels right, don't if it doesn't.

I thought your motto was "I'll do it later..."


Quote from my coach - "The best way to get nothing done is to do nothing." Fuck her brother

But also try to just be with her a lot.

What Strife said, you need to be the one in control right now. Tell dat bitch that this is her one opportunity, if she doesn't ditch the homo then she's never gonna see you again. And if she actually DOES pick the other guy, then ignore that bitch FOR LIFE.

If you know she loves you then there shouldn't be much problems between you and her, however it's natural to think of terrible scenarios when the girl you love is constantly with another guy, or worse, put into a dilemma where she is forced to love this guy and not love you. She might not even love the guy. Tell me.

Do you have history with this girl?
Happy times with her?
Have you guys intimately got closer to each other? Not in a relationship kind of way, but in the friendship area. Friendship comes first, you know? Getting to know each other. Learning to trust and respect.
Has this girl made sacrifices for you?
This is my point. If she just goes with this guy and leaves you alone then that means she doesn't love you. It may seem easy to avoid that notion but you CANNOT love a girl who can't accept you for who you are. I don't know about this girl you speak of, brotha. She probably isn't like that and needs someone who is strong. That is probably why she may feels sort of compelled to be with him with ease and not you. It shouldn't be like that though. I mean, has she been with you more than him lately?
Love beats all things, my boi. She should ditch him and tell the people that are forcing her that she can't be with someone without love and by force.
There's just way too many scenarios that will make you fall into the ditch of misery and depression so I shouldn't be giving you the wrong advice for the wrong situations and just have you tell me what is exactly going on now so I can tell you the right things for the right situations.
Let her know that you want her. I mean, get serious. Write her a letter that consists of your thoughts about the whole thing. She should tell you if she wants to be in the relationship with the guy or not. Find shit out, son. Get on the ball- no. Hump the ball. You can't stay in the position you are forever. You want happiness. It's all about you and her.
If everything goes bad and the girl ends up ditching you and goes with this guy then just take off. Don't take any abuse or grief from the person you love. It should never, ever be like that.

Dude...How exactly is she forced.?

Want me to stab em?

mai fuck D: i didn't used to drink ...
but now imma drink some alcohol with my daddeh...i truly wanna be with her..:\ i just don't fuckin' know...Why? This is happening for the second time ..with another girl dammit...
1st one was ..well.....A bitch..

@MJ: Sir...i'll tell you wen to stab em >:3

@Ping: man...my friends know about her...i kinda hit my friends when they say bad about her..just think of it..Im hitting my best friends for the girl..i mean i like her so much..imma just dare that girl .. >:3 ..i'll tell her brother to do something..

@Strife: hmm..imma say to her that i like her..btw she knows though...and imma say to her that if you like me...leave that noob and ...come with me..Prove it..>:3

@Phanny: Imma try to be with her...:\..

@Luka: yeah imma try to ignore her if...i'm turned down.. ..but the thing is i won't be able to ignore her..cus i like her so fuckin much..imma ..lay myself on tracks...

She Loves me..but she says...She doesn't wanna break the heart of the other guy..DAmn...Imma take down that other guy ...he's younger than meh lol

Cody wrote:

mai fuck D: i didn't used to drink ...
but now imma drink some alcohol with my daddeh...i truly wanna be with her..:\ i just don't fuckin' know...Why? This is happening for the second time ..with another girl dammit...
1st one was ..well.....A bitch..

@MJ: Sir...i'll tell you wen to stab em >:3

@Ping: man...my friends know about her...i kinda hit my friends when they say bad about her..just think of it..Im hitting my best friends for the girl..i mean i like her so much..imma just dare that girl .. >:3 ..i'll tell her brother to do something..

@Strife: hmm..imma say to her that i like her..btw she knows though...and imma say to her that if you like me...leave that noob and ...come with me..Prove it..>:3

@Phanny: Imma try to be with her...:\..

@Luka: yeah imma try to ignore her if...i'm turned down.. ..but the thing is i won't be able to ignore her..cus i like her so fuckin much..imma ..lay myself on tracks...

Suicide is never the answer, bro. And no girl is worth suicide.

Cody wrote:

She Loves me..but she says...She doesn't wanna break the heart of the other guy..DAmn...Imma take down that other guy ...he's younger than meh lol

If she doesn't want to break his heart, she obviously has feelings for him.

If I were you I'd move on. You'll find someone who actually cares enough about you to want to be with you. You'll be happier than any other girl who's with another man could make you. Trust me bro, move on from this situation that's making you feel these bad things.

She loves me too...y'know...i mean...she cares for me too. She kinda stops me from Doing bad things when she's with me...
like...she stops me from smoking and stuff...:\

Cody wrote:

She loves me too...y'know...i mean...she cares for me too. She kinda stops me from Doing bad things when she's with me...
like...she stops me from smoking and stuff...:\

How old are you cody?

16 >.< ...well people here are..just y'know..break rules..and nobody gives a fuck..

Cody wrote:

16 >.< ...well people here are..just y'know..break rules..and nobody gives a fuck..

You got a lot of girl problems for a 16 year old

Seto Stevce wrote:

Cody wrote:

16 >.< ...well people here are..just y'know..break rules..and nobody gives a fuck..

You got a lot of girl problems for a 16 year old

I bet you it's mostly teenage drama.

The situation is probably described 10x worse by him than it actually is

Lmfao. Teenage drama.

Screw my life! I just want to die! Nobody loves me! The world would be better off without me! *sigh* It gets tiring listening to it like every day.

Afrolicious wrote:

Screw my life! I just want to die! Nobody loves me! The world would be better off without me! *sigh* It gets tiring listening to it like every day.

That's what facebook

Afrolicious wrote:

Lmfao. Teenage drama.

Screw my life! I just want to die! Nobody loves me! The world would be better off without me! *sigh* It gets tiring listening to it like every day.

I had of feeling it might be that, but didn't want to be a dick and say it lol

Teenage drama, may it be, it's still as big of a problem as any one older may face, since teenagers are so hormonal they actually FEEL the horribleness that is this shit Cody's going thru. As petty it may seem to us, I understand where he's coming from. I've had my fair share of stupid bitch problems but you get over it. Hand to god, you get over it.

TL;DR

Spoiler:

lol its not teenage drama.
meh imma just leave the situation i guess...just fuck it..